How about instead of what your friends would say, what your enemies would say? And if all your friends would say you're handsome and all the ladies would say you're a great kisser, how many men does that leave who are not handsome and kiss like ducks? Couldn't be many. What if every man is a great kisser and I have dated 89 men and only 3 ranked in the top 100? Have I missed out on the odds? If so many of you love to take long walks on the beach why am I the only one there every day? Is there a specific time you hang out you want I should know about? 
I must just be the rare loser.  I don't seem to be seeing the perfection these men portend in their profiles! 
Am I meeting them at an "off" time in their lives?  

Men and Women and their struggle to enmesh time after time has been the focus when it shouldn't be. The quest should be to enhance each others lives unconditionally. The reason this does not happen is because it's too much work, self work, to be exact.
Enter the dating scene, specifically the online dating scene, now to complicate an already convoluted and pointless journey, down the wrong road accompanied by the wrong intention.
So here, to clarify or perhaps to confuse a bit more, we are compiling stories, rants and raves about this frustrating and sometimes, only sometimes it seems, "I got it right" celebration and mostly unspoken of rabbit hole experience!
Welcome to the Online Dating Blog. Now you have a place, aside from venting to the next unsuspecting "first date" person you decide to torture, to give and get help, god help us, like we know, right?
So get out your best writing skills, humor and anger, frustration and embarrassing stories and lets' go!